"In the bedroom, I've got the stanima to go all night long." -idiot on tv
Why do people get so offended so easily these days? I'm sure I get offended too easily, but this is ridiculous.
This goes back to my group for my summer school class. The one girl researched a topic that did NOT relate in the SLIGHTEST with what we were supposed to discuss, and when we told her this, she said "well, if you don't think it's VALID, then you do whatever you want" and promptly left our group. Her leaving is completely fine by us (we wouldn't have let her present with us anyway, as she submitted NO work to us at all). I just don't understand how a small, stupid presentation can get someone so worked up? I would rather be told that what I was saying is wrong than presenting and getting a 0 on it, wouldn't you?
What makes it worse is that she sent me an email afterwards apologizing for her actions and thanking me for my sympathy (what sympathy?!). This was her attempt to get herself on my good side so that I wouldn't go to the prof and tell her what has gone on and how me and my remaining group member had to do EVERYTHING 12 hours before the presentation because she dropped out of our group the day before we were to present. We had do not only rework what we had each researched but also what the other girl was supposed to have done but never did get around to.
It's called GROUP presentations for a reason. You work as a GROUP, which is good experience both in school, but also in building communication skills and how to cooperate with those who may have different opinions than you.
So just get over yourself.
Why do people get so offended so easily these days? I'm sure I get offended too easily, but this is ridiculous.
This goes back to my group for my summer school class. The one girl researched a topic that did NOT relate in the SLIGHTEST with what we were supposed to discuss, and when we told her this, she said "well, if you don't think it's VALID, then you do whatever you want" and promptly left our group. Her leaving is completely fine by us (we wouldn't have let her present with us anyway, as she submitted NO work to us at all). I just don't understand how a small, stupid presentation can get someone so worked up? I would rather be told that what I was saying is wrong than presenting and getting a 0 on it, wouldn't you?
What makes it worse is that she sent me an email afterwards apologizing for her actions and thanking me for my sympathy (what sympathy?!). This was her attempt to get herself on my good side so that I wouldn't go to the prof and tell her what has gone on and how me and my remaining group member had to do EVERYTHING 12 hours before the presentation because she dropped out of our group the day before we were to present. We had do not only rework what we had each researched but also what the other girl was supposed to have done but never did get around to.
It's called GROUP presentations for a reason. You work as a GROUP, which is good experience both in school, but also in building communication skills and how to cooperate with those who may have different opinions than you.
So just get over yourself.